The Stoics' highest goal was feeling nothing at all about misfortune
Apatheia, for Zeno, Chrysippus and Epictetus, didn't mean apathy in the modern sense of not caring; it meant freedom from being yanked around by destructive passions like fear, grief and rage, which the Stoics saw as judgement errors, not facts about the world. A Stoic sage could still act with warmth and purpose, just without the inner turbulence most people mistake for being alive to events.